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Eating Problems

Learn more about eating problems, treatment options, self-help tools, and resources to help you find healthy ways of managing stress.

You may have days when you just don’t feel like eating, or maybe you are binging on food some days and not eating much on others. Have you noticed a loss of appetite because you’re feeling blue? Or, when you feel stressed out, do you turn to food to make yourself feel better? These things can be signs of eating problems, or even an eating disorder.

Although everyone experiences stress or sadness at some point, people respond to these emotions differently. Some Veterans may find that, because they feel down, they're having trouble eating. Others may find that eating when they're sad or depressed makes them feel better, but then they feel more upset later for overeating.

“After talking to my counselor, I realized I was eating food as a way to get comfort. It wasn’t until my counselor pointed it out to me that I saw my eating issues were really related to how I was handling stress.”

If left unchecked, eating problems can affect your health and the way you feel about yourself, and they could lead to unhealthy weight loss or gain. Eating problems may also be related to other conditions that should be addressed, such as chronic painguiltdepression, and problems with drugs. These challenges can contribute to eating problems and also make it hard to follow your doctor's dietary recommendations for a healthy lifestyle. In some cases, what or how you eat can make other problems worse or reduce the effectiveness of medications.

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  • Try to find healthy ways of managing stress, such as taking a walk, going for a run, talking to a friend, practicing relaxation exercises like deep breathing or meditation, or doing something nice for yourself, like watching a movie or reading a magazine.
  • Eat regular, healthful meals and snacks to maintain your appetite and reduce the likelihood of overeating.
  • Work to improve your health overall. Exercise regularly and get the right amount of sleep — seven to nine hours each night is ideal for most adults.

Talking to your family and friends can be a good first step. You may want to talk to them about what you're experiencing. They may be able to provide support and help you to find solutions for your eating problems that are right for you. Having someone's support as you improve your eating habits can be very helpful.

Every day, Veterans from all military service branches and eras connect with proven resources and effective treatments. Here’s how to take the next step: the one that’s right for you.

New to VA? Apply for health care benefits.

Already enrolled in VA and interested in mental health support? Schedule a mental health appointment.

  • If you’re already enrolled and using VA health care, the fastest way to schedule VA appointments is to call the VA facility where you want to receive care.
  • With VA Appointments tools, you can schedule some VA health care appointments online, view details about upcoming appointments, and organize your health care calendar.
  • If you’re not using VA medical services, contact your nearest VA medical center or Vet Center to talk about your needs.

What about other options at VA? VA offers a variety of tools and resources.  

  • The Veteran Training online self-help portal for overcoming everyday challenges includes modules on managing anger, developing parenting and problem-solving skills, and more.
  • Mental health apps for Veterans cover a variety of topics, ranging from PTSD to anger management to quitting smoking.
  • VA TeleMental Health connects you with a VA mental health provider through a computer or mobile device in your home or at your nearest VA health facility. You can learn more about this option from your local VA medical center.
  • Community-based Vet Centers provide confidential counseling, community engagement and referral services to eligible individuals and their families. You don’t need to be enrolled in VA healthcare or have a service connection to receive services. Find a Vet Center near you or call 1-877-927-8387, 24/7 to talk with a fellow Veteran about your experiences.

What about support beyond VA?

There’s a whole community of support ready to help with whatever you’re going through. Use this tool to find resources near you.

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Vet Center

Vet Centers are community-based counseling centers across the nation in all 50 states and US territories that provide a wide range of social and psychological services, including counseling to eligible Veterans, service members - including National Guard and Reserve components – and their families. Counselors and outreach specialists, many of whom are Veterans themselves, are experienced and prepared to discuss the tragedies of war, loss, grief, and transition after trauma. To learn more, find your nearest Vet Center. Teams are also available 24/7 by phone at 1-877-927-8387.

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Veterans Crisis Line

Are you a Veteran in crisis or concerned about one? Connect with the Veterans Crisis Line to reach caring, qualified responders with the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Many of them are Veterans themselves. Free support is confidential and available 24/7. Dial 988 then Press 1, chat here or text 838255. If you have hearing loss, call TTY: Dial 711 then dial 988.

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Self-Help Tools

Veterans can access online courses that provide instruction and training in problem-solving, parenting, anger management, sleeping better, managing stress and more.

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